10 Questions part 9 and 10

9. How does your child handle emotions?

Although emotions are God given, they have to be managed or they can damage relationships. Proverbs 29:11 tells us, "A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control." Self-control is important. The conscience can help children by prompting them when their emotions have crossed the line. Even positive emotions like excitement can get out of control resulting in a person becoming irritating to others or not knowing when to quit. Many children need help understanding and managing their emotions. Spend extra time this year helping your children develop emotional control. It will help them for the rest of their lives.

10. How is your child's personal relationship with God?

One of the purposes of the conscience is to point to God (Romans 2:15). Every person has a conscience as an internal witness to the fact that God exists. The conscience points to sin in our lives and salvation cleanses the conscience (Hebrews 10:22). Talking about the conscience with children can be an excellent way to help them develop a personal faith.

A biblical understanding of the conscience reveals that it is part of God's internal motivation system that functions best when it is cleansed through salvation, empowered by the Holy Spirit, and relies on God's Word. Then it can help children to do what's right, deal with wrongs, be honest, and care about others.